Stress Management ( 3rd part )

Relationship of Love with Stress
Is where we feel the changes in ourselves that can affect the system inside or outside of our bodies. Both changes are conscious or unconscious changes, reaction - a reaction that appears when we fall in love as well as or nearly the same when we experience stress. Like:

• Response muscles : When we expression (smiling, laughing, sad, happy, surprised, etc..) Muscles - the muscles in our faces to work and move in accordance with the expression of what we feel. At the moment we fall in love, an expression that is more often used is smiling and happy.
• Response from the heart : Felt at the time we feel the heart degub faster on s semkin aat we meet or face to face with our partners. 
• Response from the skin : Skin or pores - pores is one in which the media propagated pheromones. Besides the skin also produces liquid sweat. Sometimes we feel nervous and nervous when we meet with our potential partner. This hormone stimulates the feeling of sweat glands to produce sweat. (Girdano, L A. 2005).
  

In addition to biological changes or on our bodies, there are also changes in diet and rest. "Helen Fisher studies and friends, when someone looked at her lover, will stimulate the dopamine ventral tegmental and caudate nucleus in the brain lit up. In the right doses, dopamine creates the power, excitement, focused attention, and a strong urge to give rewards. That's why falling in love can make bad eating, sleeping rough ".
In the same article, other researchers showed that the body's chemical interference was evident when a person falls in love. For example it was found that serotonin levels of people who are obsessed and her boyfriend 40 percent lower than normal levels of serotonin.

DEBATE

DEFINITIONS

* The debate is argument of activities between two or more parties, either individually or in groups, in discussing and deciding issues and differences. Formally, the debate mostly done in the legislative institutions such as parliaments, especially in countries that use the opposition system. In this case, the debate is to obey the rules clear and the results of the debate can be generated through a vote or decision of the jury.

(Source: id.wikipedia.org)

* The debate is a discussion between two people or some different opinions, where between one party and other parties to attack each other. (Source: eduscpes.com)

* The debate occurred in which elements play a lot of emotion. Here ,The participants maintain their opinion and there is little room in the inner, to hear the good opinion of others. The atmosphere becomes 'busy' and the peaceful nature of the discussion did not happen. Each participant only want to 'hear' their own opinions and wishes in order that the other participants agree. So there are elements of coercion.

(source: krishnamurti.or.id)

* The debate is the main activity of the people who demonstratic (source: pbs.org)

* The debate is a contest between two people or groups who presented on their arguments and try to defeat arguments of their opponents. (Source: triviumpursuit.com)

* The debate is a formal method for presenting an argument that consists of argument issue and supporting issue or against the issue.
(source: thepeoplespeaks.org)

* I think the debate is the argument between two or more parties in discussing the different views in response to get an information.

Communication Interpersonal

First post,Communication Interpersonal is the main topics in this blog. As we know,communication interpersonal is important for us,and for introduction post of this blog,we will discuss about Communication Interpersonal. Communication is a process to get information from others. Communication is an important part of human’s life. Talking about human’s life, in fact according to psychology, there are some relevant concepts of human. They were divided into four points , such as: 

1. Behaviorism Psychological: creature physical / behavioral habits 
2. Cognitive Psychology : Human beings can thinking 
3.  Psychoanalysis Psychology : Human beings have a mental / subconsciou 
4.  Humanism Psychology : Human beings are unique / different 
   

According of the concepts mentioned above, we may conclude that humans are unique creatures with the result of that to communicate we must consider the rules of communication, these things to avoid missunderstanding.Interpersonal communication is the communication is done by people with others. 

Interpersonal communication is a communication method that is often used by people at work, hang out and in our community. Communication is a problem when we didn’t know how to communicate and this frequently faced by everyone. In fact, communication is very easy in theory and practice, but for some people,it can be difficult.

Communication can occur directly and indirectly. Direct communication can be done directly talking with other. Communication is very effective to know response from the others.Beside direct communication, there is indirect communication. People usually communicate by email, letters, SMS, presentations and meetings. This communication is indirect communication. Indirect communication is efficient, but it is more advisable to make direct communication (face to face), because if the communication is done directly, then the two sides better understand the information provided, it is more familiar than other speaker characteristics, so the risk of understanding can be minimized.